We lost the championship by two points and my players were crushed in the locker room. I told them the truth, that I cared more about the men they were becoming than any trophy, and I meant it. Years from now nobody will remember the score. They'll remember whether I taught them to lose without falling apart.
More people experience this than they realize.
You measure your coaching by the people you build, not the games you win.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.