I made the architecture call this week, laid out the tradeoffs plainly, picked the path, and moved on. Six months from now some of it will look wrong and that's fine; I chose with open eyes. I've stopped needing the decision to be perfect and started making ones that hold up.
More people experience this than they realize.
You make architecture decisions that hold up, weighing tradeoffs and living with them.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.