I took an instructional coach role to help other teachers, not to leave the classroom behind. But the people I used to eat lunch with now go quiet when I walk in, like I've crossed over to management. I'm the same person, and suddenly I'm on the other side of a line I didn't mean to draw.
More people experience this than they realize.
A step up has turned your colleagues into people who no longer trust you.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.