People come to my office all day and pour out their worst moments, and I hold every bit of it. But no one really sees HR as being on their side, and half the time I don't have the power to fix what they're bringing me. I carry everyone's problems home in my chest, and there's nowhere for me to set them down.
More people experience this than they realize.
Everyone brings you their problems, but you're not trusted and can't fix them, and it wears you down.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.