Everyone around me seems to have someone, a mentor who opens doors, a network that catches them. I watch people get pulled up by connections I don't have and never learned how to make. I'm standing outside a room everyone else seems to already be in, with no idea how they got the key.
More people experience this than they realize.
Others have connections and mentors while you have none and don't know how to get them.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.