When I'm following someone else's orders on the boat, I'm fine. But the first time they left me at the helm alone, my mind went blank. All the gauges, the radio, the current pushing us sideways, and everyone waiting on me to just handle it. I froze.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can do your part on the crew, but being the one in charge of the vessel overwhelms you.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.