We finally all agreed in the meeting today and I felt that warm wash of relief. Then, driving home, I realized the thing we agreed on was the safe, watered-down option nobody could object to, not the right one. I keep chasing that feeling of everyone nodding, and calling it a good decision.
More people experience this than they realize.
You chase agreement and mistake it for making the right call.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.