I can sit in the middle of the ugliest fight and stay perfectly even, giving nothing away. People trust me because I never take a side. But some days I'm so tired of swallowing my own opinion, of never getting to say what I actually think is right. I hold everyone else's positions and never get to have my own.
More people experience this than they realize.
Always staying neutral means never getting to have a side of your own.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.