I can bring almost any two people back from the edge, hold the room while they shout and slowly soften. All day I carry other people's anger and grief so they do not have to. But I went home last night and could not talk to my own partner about the thing sitting between us, and I realized I hold everyone's conflict but my own.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can settle anyone else's conflict, but you're weary of never facing your own.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.