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When I'm always the one who holds it all together

Whatever falls apart, I'm the one who quietly picks it up and gets the thing across the line. People have stopped worrying about projects because they know I'll hold it together. But nobody sees how heavy "the one who holds it all" gets, and lately I feel it in my shoulders every night.

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You can carry any project through anything, but always being the one who holds it together wears you down.

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