I've found my footing in the family business at last. When we're in a meeting, I'm the manager and they treat me like one; when we're at dinner, I'm just their daughter again. It took years of gently insisting to draw that line and make it stick. Some nights I still marvel that I get to be both, fully, without one swallowing the other.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've earned respect as both family and professional, and you hold that line carefully.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.