Everyone says I should be networking, so I went to a mixer and stood by the snacks feeling like a fraud. Walking up to strangers to sell myself makes my skin crawl, like I'm using people to get something. I left early, sure that whatever this game is, I don't know how to play it and maybe don't want to.
More people experience this than they realize.
Networking feels fake and using people, and you don't know how to do it.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.