I asked my team for honest thoughts on the plan and got nods and looks good. Later I heard two of them had real doubts they never said out loud. It took me a while to see it: they have watched how I react, and they have learned it is safer to stay quiet.
More people experience this than they realize.
People have stopped being honest with you because of how you react.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.