I can spot a dead lead in the first two minutes and cut it loose without blinking. It's made me fast and protected my time. But I caught myself the other day sizing up a new person, worth it or not, in about ten seconds flat, and I didn't love what that quickness has done to how I see people.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can disqualify fast and protect your time, but you've grown cold in sizing people up.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.