My job is to sit right in the middle of two people at war and stay perfectly neutral, no matter how ugly it gets. I absorb all of it, the shouting, the tears, the accusations, and I'm not allowed to take a side or let it show. Nobody warned me how much that would cost me on the inside.
More people experience this than they realize.
You hold neutral ground between people at war while soaking up all their conflict.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.