I can win over almost any customer, calm the nervous ones, soften the angry ones, all while doing the actual job. But nobody counts that part. They see the pipe I fixed, never the twenty minutes I spent managing someone's panic, and I'm worn thin from work that doesn't show up on any invoice.
More people experience this than they realize.
You do exhausting emotional work on every job that nobody counts as part of the trade.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.