Most calls, I know exactly where the line is and I stay on the right side of it. But there was a night last month, a guy reaching for something in the dark, half a second to decide, and I still turn it over at three in the morning. I made the call and it was fine, and it still will not leave me alone.
More people experience this than they realize.
You handle most force decisions well, but the split-second, unclear ones still haunt you afterward.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.