A coworker and I had it out last month, the kind of honest argument I used to run from, and somehow we came out closer than before. I can sit in that discomfort now without flinching. Still, part of me is quietly amazed that the fights I dreaded my whole life turned out to be where the real trust got built.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can work through any conflict now, and it surprises you that the hard talks are what build trust.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.