I can walk into almost any workplace blowup and cool it down. People trust me to be fair. But I've spent years standing in the middle, never fully on anyone's side, and it's lonely up here. Some days I honestly don't know whose side I'm even supposed to be on anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can settle any conflict, but years in the middle have left you lonely and unsure where you stand.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.