For twenty years I've been the steady voice on the line while someone's whole world falls apart. I talk them through the fire, the crash, the last breath, and I never let my voice shake. Then I hang up, and I realize I've got nothing left for my own family at dinner.
More people experience this than they realize.
You stayed calm through everyone's worst days for years, and it quietly emptied you out.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.