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When you can take the abuse and that scares you

People yell at me all day and I don't even blink anymore. I used to shake after a bad call; now nothing touches me. At first I thought that was strength, but lately it scares me. What does it say about me that I can just stand there and take it?

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You've gotten so good at absorbing abuse that going numb has started to frighten you.

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