I still work hard, harder than most, but now it's because I choose to, not because I can't stop. When Friday comes I close the laptop and the ground doesn't fall out from under me. The work is something I do, not the thing holding me up.
More people experience this than they realize.
Working hard by choice, and being able to put it down without falling apart.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.