I have one promotion and two people who've both earned it. Both have worked hard, both are watching, and either way I let one of them down. So I keep stalling, telling myself I need more time, and the longer I leave it open the more the waiting itself starts to hurt everyone.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can't choose between two deserving people, so you stall and the delay does damage.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.