My reviews are so thorough that people literally wait on them before they can ship. That used to feel like proof I mattered. Now I sit with a pull request open and honestly can't tell if my long list of comments is raising the bar or just holding everyone hostage to my nitpicks.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can't tell anymore whether your thoroughness lifts the work or just holds everyone up.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.