I can feel a situation turn before it turns, a skill that has saved me more than once. The problem is I can't shut it off. At my kid's birthday I'm scanning exits and watching hands instead of watching him blow out the candles. My wife says I'm here but not here, and she's right.
More people experience this than they realize.
The alertness that keeps you safe at work won't switch off at home.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.