I still let the work touch me; I never wanted to go numb to these people. But I have learned to care with a firm edge, to give fully at work and then close the door so I have something left for tomorrow. It is the only way I have found to keep showing up for people year after year.
More people experience this than they realize.
You carry the work with an open heart and firm limits so you can last for years.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.