I call the team together and ask for their input on the decision, nodding along as they talk. But I made up my mind days ago, and this whole meeting is theater to make them feel included. I can see in their faces that they know it too, and it's quietly poisoning the trust between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
You ask for input on decisions you've already made, and people can tell it's hollow.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.