I finally worked up the nerve to ask for more, and this time I actually did. But when I compared notes with a coworker later, I realized I still settled for way less than I could have gotten. I got some of what I wanted and walked away from the rest.
More people experience this than they realize.
You have started negotiating, but you keep settling for less than you could get.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.