I don't hide anymore. I mention my husband the same easy way anyone mentions their spouse, and I decide when and how I share, not fear. Over time I've found the handful of coworkers who truly have my back, and walking in as my whole self has changed everything about how work feels.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've chosen to be open at work on your own terms and found the people who stand with you.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.