I can build an itinerary from nothing and rescue one that is falling apart, and everyone knows I am the one who fixes it. When their trip melts down at 2 in the morning, it is my phone that rings and I make it right. But when my own plans fall apart, there is no one on the other end of the line for me.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're always the one rescuing everyone else, with no one there to rescue you.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.