In a one-on-one I can hold my ground fine. But the moment someone pushes back on me in a meeting, with everyone watching, something in me folds. I agree to things in the room that I quietly disagree with the second I walk out, and I hate that the audience does that to me.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can hold a position in private but cave the moment you're challenged in front of others.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.