I told the team clearly which way we were going, and the first time someone pushed back hard, I reversed it. I've done this enough now that they've started to notice. These days when I give a direction, I can see them waiting to find out whether it'll actually hold, and most of the time it doesn't.
More people experience this than they realize.
You give clear direction then reverse it under pressure, so no one trusts your calls.
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