On paper I'm the leader, but I've never once felt like one. I feel like a regular person who got handed a title and a set of responsibilities. When it's time to make the call or hold the line, that missing sense of being a leader shows, and I think people can see it too.
More people experience this than they realize.
You hold a leadership role but the identity of a leader never took hold.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.