I can walk into just about any interview now and actually connect with the person across from me. I ask my own questions, I am sizing them up as much as they are sizing me up. The last one, I realized halfway through I was not sure I even wanted the job, and that felt like standing on solid ground.
More people experience this than they realize.
You can connect in any interview and size them up as much as they size you up.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.