I can pull off any event without a hitch now, the timing, the details, all of it invisible and perfect. But I spend every one of them backstage in the dark, making sure someone else's big moment shines. I go home after the applause dies down and wonder when I last had a moment of my own.
More people experience this than they realize.
You make everyone else's moment perfect and have none left for yourself.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.