When something goes wrong, I have learned to say plainly what was mine and what was not. I own my mistakes fully and I no longer swallow blame for the things I never controlled. The floor is loud and messy and on display, but I stand in it steady now.
More people experience this than they realize.
You own what's yours and refuse blame for what isn't, staying steady on the floor.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.