I have sent countless people off to the trip of a lifetime, handling every detail so their week is perfect. Then I go home and realize I have not taken a real trip of my own in years. I build everyone else's adventures and quietly wonder why I never got around to mine.
More people experience this than they realize.
You give everyone else the trips of their lives while going without your own.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.