I can see the shape of someone's pattern before they've said it out loud, sometimes before they can bear to know it themselves. But I sit there holding what I can see and can't always say yet, waiting for them to be ready. Carrying that quiet knowing, session after session, is heavier than anyone warned me.
More people experience this than they realize.
You see people's patterns before they do, and carry the weight of what you can't yet say.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.