I'm supposed to be the neutral one in the room, but I keep tipping my hand. A nod here, a question that leans one way, and suddenly the other side stops trusting me. Once they think I've picked a side, the whole thing falls apart, and I can't seem to stop myself from doing it.
More people experience this than they realize.
You take sides without meaning to and lose everyone's trust.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.