I copy the same message, swap in a name, and blast it out to a hundred people. Almost nobody writes back, and honestly I get why; it reads like a form letter because it is one. I keep telling myself it's a numbers game, but the number is basically zero. I'm shouting into a void and calling it networking.
More people experience this than they realize.
You blast the same generic message to everyone and get ignored.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.