My partner feels like they're up against my job for my attention, and the hard part is they're right. When I'm home I'm half there, phone buzzing, mind still at work. They shouldn't have to compete for me, but that's exactly what it's become.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your partner is competing with your work for your attention, and losing.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.