The whole team is celebrating the launch, and I'm the one who has to walk in and say it can't ship yet. I can already feel the room turn cold when I raise my hand. Everyone else gets to be the person who makes things happen, and I'm always the one who makes them stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're always the one who says no, and it makes you feel like the enemy.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.