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When friendship becomes competitive over shared medical conditions

My best friend and I both have the same autoimmune condition but we've become competitive about treatments and symptoms instead of supportive. We compare everything — whose doctor is better, who's doing worse, who's trying what supplements — and it's making both of us worse patients because we're more focused on each other than on our own care.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Comparison and competition are replacing genuine support and hindering both people's ability to focus on their individual health needs.

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