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How chronic illness diagnosis changes longtime friendships

My best friend was diagnosed with MS three years ago and our friendship has shifted into me always checking if she's okay and her always saying she's fine, and we've lost the easy intimacy we used to have because everything feels loaded now.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Chronic illness can transform friendship dynamics from natural reciprocity into careful caretaking that diminishes authentic connection.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Chronic illness — living with a long condition?”

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