My daughter has been trying to conceive for two years and I want to support her but I don't know when to ask how things are going versus when to give her space, and my husband thinks I'm being too involved while I think he's being too distant from her pain.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are calibrating support differently, creating tension about how to honor someone else's grief without making it about their own discomfort.
“Where Are You with Fertility and conception?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.