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When a family member's pain creates conflict for everyone living together

My father-in-law moved in with us after his back surgery and he's in constant pain, angry all the time, and taking it out on everyone — my kids are afraid of him, my spouse feels guilty setting boundaries, and I'm the one dealing with his outbursts daily while trying to hold our family together.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Pain can become a weapon when someone doesn't know how to ask for help without hurting others.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pain — acute and chronic management?”

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