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When friends bond over shared air quality complaints but want different solutions

My friend and I both started having breathing problems after moving to this city and we bond over complaining about the air quality, but I'm considering moving away and I'm afraid to tell them because our shared misery has become the foundation of our friendship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared suffering can become a form of intimacy that makes it threatening to seek individual healing or change.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Air quality and respiratory environment?”

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