My husband and I disagree about using donor eggs and it's not just about the decision anymore — it's about what constitutes 'our' child and whether my eggs specifically matter to him in ways he won't admit, and we can't move forward until we're honest about what we're both really afraid of losing.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people must navigate what feels like competing values about biological connection while the unspoken fears underneath remain unexamined.
“Where Are You with Fertility and conception?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.