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Scenario

When couples face difficult fertility decisions about genetic connection

My husband and I disagree about using donor eggs and it's not just about the decision anymore — it's about what constitutes 'our' child and whether my eggs specifically matter to him in ways he won't admit, and we can't move forward until we're honest about what we're both really afraid of losing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people must navigate what feels like competing values about biological connection while the unspoken fears underneath remain unexamined.

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Dipa
Dipa works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Fertility and conception?”

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