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When partners avoid necessary medical appointments despite health concerns

My husband has been avoiding his cardiologist for six months and every time I bring up scheduling he gets defensive and we fight. I'm scared about his heart condition but I don't know how to express that without sounding like I'm nagging him about his health.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Fear of medical news can create avoidance that strains relationships, especially when one person's health anxiety meets another's denial.

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