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When family pressure around childbearing creates relationship strain

My mother-in-law keeps asking when we're going to give her grandchildren and my husband just deflects instead of telling her we've been trying unsuccessfully for three years, so I end up being the bad guy who's 'not ready' while dealing with fertility treatments she doesn't know about.

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Protecting family from painful truths can leave one partner bearing both the medical reality and the social burden of secrecy.

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